As a female... I don't like the bad boy, I couldn't care less if you could dance, and I don't care how big you are.

1 - if the girl and your friend are in a good relationship, don't break it up just because you want her. That would be the worst thing you could do. It will destroy your chances with her and your relationship with your friend. If their relationship goes sour and you end up going out with her, chances are your friend won't like you dating his ex. You're screwed either way.

Once you realize, in these situations, that you need to leave her alone and let life take it's course - stop looking for love. If you look for love, you become desperate and end up looking for it in all the wrong places.

My boyfriend and I met in our Japanese class, very randomly. He complimented me on my necklace one day, which was an hourglass, and asked if it was from something (video game or anime-wise). Life took it's course and now we've been going out for nearly a year and a half. Show interest in her, and find mutual interests.

Don't try to be the person you think she wants you to be, be the person you are and grow into that person and the right person for you will be attracted to that.

No, no one has a definitive way to do this with every girl. Though many people have some good ideas.

I wish you all the best. I can only speak from experience in sharing that patience and friendship can lead to wonderful things, if you are fortunate. You don't know what time will bring -- they may be destined to be together forever or you may find you and she grow together in the event they grow apart and break up. In the interim, focus on doing things that help you meet your other goals in life. Growing yourself as a person is, in my humble opinion, one of the most attractive traits in any person, male or female at any age.

Two words.. Chuck Norris, hahah, but yeah just be yourself. :)

1 rule...Listen. Most of us men talk way too much. Ladies do you agree?

Lol I've been asking myself this same question for the longest time. I can honestly tel you now that theres no clear answer, it just depends on the girl and the situation.

Being able to make a girl laugh really helps though. Just make sure shes comfortable around you and you can get along on some basis. Have something in common and something to talk about.

In my opinion a guy who is confident, can make a girl laugh, and is chivalrous will have a good chance in winning her heart.

Every girl is different but you can't go wrong with what I mentioned.

Girls like bad boys don't be too nice and don't be her friend. Once in the "friend zone" theres no getting out.... If your interested in attracting women, then i suggest you read a book called the game. It will teach you everything you Ned to know.

Within context of a relationship winning a partners heart is easy. Continuing the romance, renewing the relationship is more difficult yet it is obtainable.

There is no one way > equifinality.

One of the best answers I have seen and know of so far is...Listen. A great place to start.

Challenge him to a friendly duel! Of course, if you have to resort to this, it probably won't work out in the end anyway. Just forget about her, no sense in ruining two good friendships just to be able to have a relationship that probably won't last forever.