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Ok so I am 15 years old, I am 6 foot 2, I weigh 70kg which is not a lot. I have never had a girlfriend and I was never kissed... Is there is anything wrong with me? I am not handsome... Unfortunately I cannot choose who I would love, I cannot tell my heart to stop loving someone and move on. IN my life I really loved 3 girls and each one of them for a quite a long time. The girl that I love now, I was loving for about 2 yrs, and few months ago I thought that I must give it a try, so I asked her out in romantic letter... Unfortunately her response was a no. In our school Most of the boys of my age have already had a lot of girlfriends. So now I really have doubts about my future relationships life. The girl that I love is thousands times better than me, and I knew that I wouldn't have any chances with her. People tell me to move on, but I can't force my heart to stop loving her. And also I have thought that when I am going to have a girlfriend, I might spoil everything very fast because I don't know how to kiss and she would laugh at me. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!! Just in case I have also provided a picture of me
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Be yourself... try to stay confident. Also, if it makes you feel any better I'm sixteen and haven't had a girlfriend yet. I really don't want one either. Mostly because they can hold you back. And I haven't kissed a girl either! I don't let this bother me. I think life is more then girls. |
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Just try to stay confident, don't pull yourself down about anything. I know many people who haven't had girlfriends yet who are much older than you, so its not like you're on your own either so there is nothing wrong with you at all. And I am sure you will find someone you love who will love you back in later life. Good luck with everything. |
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I'm currently 14 and just like you, I'm always single. I just don't really feel the need to get into that kind of a relationship this early in life. All I really have to say is keep on waiting and you should find the correct person eventually. |
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Don't feel bad mate I never had a girl friend until I was 17...... Might be because I had long hair. I got it cut off and had a shave with about 99 razors and now I am doing ok for myself, wish I started sooner. |
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Hey I'm 15 and I have never been kissed or had a girlfriend. Here is my advise: Don't get one till your in college. When my friends have girlfriends and boyfriends a couple months later they break up and they are heartbroken. I wouldn't want that. When you get to college make friends with girls. You know that saying is 'You marry your best friend'. I'm just looking for friendships right now so if our fates allow some girl will stay connected to me and become good friends. ALSO when you get a girlfriend in your senior year, college comes around the corner BAM! you go to different colleges and you get disconnected. Just wait a little. My opinion. |
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High school relationships are the most awkward relationships you'll find. I've had quite a few in my years, one of which even lasted 2 years. You start thinking about life when college comes around and you know you won't be able to keep up with your significant other as much. Just live life loving life. You're in high school, HAVE FUN, don't let not having a relationship spoil your fun. |
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Read a book called the game. Also don't be nice to girls, be cool, don't put yourself down THAT IS NOT ATTRACTIVE. Be confident don't act dorky , geeky, cartoony, try and be cool, think the fonze! Don't try and be funny, don't constantly tell jokes, you don't want to be the clown. You want to be "the cool sexy guy". Take a girl with you shopping change your entire wardrobe wear interesting clothes, this does 2 things, 1: gives you a self confidence boost 2: makes you more interesting to women, try quirky clothes even props perhaps wear a stethoscope to a party, it's a talking point. It will break the ice and you can use it ton flirt with women, be cool! Listen to there heart and say something like "wow your hearts really beating fast do I make you nervous" be creative like that. You don't want to be sweet and nice or you will quite quickly find yourself in the friend zone, then it's game over, but dont worry, find a new game! |
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Don't stress dude, I didn't have my first girlfriend until I was 20. Everyone is different, there's no need to rush things. |
Read a book called the game. Also don't be nice to girls, be cool, don't put yourself down THAT IS NOT ATTRACTIVE. Be confident don't act dorky , geeky, cartoony, try and be cool, think the fonze! Don't try and be funny, don't constantly tell jokes, you don't want to be the clown. You want to be "the cool sexy guy". Take a girl with you shopping change your entire wardrobe wear interesting clothes, this does 2 things, 1: gives you a self confidence boost 2: makes you more interesting to women, try quirky clothes even props perhaps wear a stethoscope to a party, it's a talking point. It will break the ice and you can use it ton flirt with women, be cool! Listen to there heart and say something like "wow your hearts really beating fast do I make you nervous" be creative like that. You don't want to be sweet and nice or you will quite quickly find yourself in the friend zone, then it's game over, but dont worry, find a new game!
you're a little cutie... LOL
I rest my case ^^^^^
im the same, dont worry